Warren Buffett says the most important financial decision you can make has nothing to do with the stock market
"You want to associate with people who are the kind of person you'd like to be. You'll move in that direction, and the most important person by far in that respect is your spouse."
Asking Eric: Why did nobody stop the high-strung sister from stealing the valuables?
Sometimes we just have to let other people's toxic families be toxic. There is an unhealthy dynamic between your spouse, your spouse's siblings, and their sister.