Dear Abby: My husband's one-night stand is being rubbed in our faces
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Dear Abby: My husband's one-night stand is being rubbed in our faces
"Oh, my. It seems like who goes around comes around. It's a shame that you can't leave the past a one-night stand more than 37 years ago in the past and find the humor in this. I suspect it happens more often than you think. Please quit regarding this as a competition between you and your brother-in-law's girlfriend. Your husband chose you. End of contest. If there is cause for embarrassment, it should be hers, not yours."
"I'll try. I will also venture to say that 21 animals living in a house may not be healthy for all concerned. Because your wife is unable to listen to reason, contact animal control services in your city or county and explain what's going on. (I'm surprised one of your neighbors hasn't already tipped them off.) Your wife may have a heart of gold, but those creatures deserve a better standard of care than what your wife can give them."
One woman feels awkward because her brother-in-law is dating a woman her husband was intimate with once more than 37 years before their marriage, and family gatherings have become uncomfortable. The guidance is to leave a distant one-night encounter in the past, recognize the husband chose his wife, and stop treating the situation as a contest. A man reports his wife rescues animals and now keeps 21 pets in the house, creating concern for their health and care. The guidance is to contact local animal control to ensure humane care. A retired mail carrier notes 36 years delivering mail and 25 years serving a retirement community and is now retired.
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