The author reflects on a long-standing friendship with Michele that felt effortless and understanding. After reconnecting, the author encouraged Michele to explore freelance writing, but the nature of their relationship began to shift as Michele needed more guidance and support than the author felt capable of giving. This change led the author to struggle with boundaries, ultimately resulting in a breakdown of communication and a drifting apart, despite their long history together.
I could tell her that I took that toxic boyfriend back yet again and she wouldn't judge. "I probably would have done the same thing," she would say.
After almost 20 years of friendship, the effortlessness slipped away. Michele, I perceived, was asking for more (time and guidance) than I could give.
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