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I chose not to have kids. I need to make a bigger effort to stay friends with those who did.

Choosing to be child-free can shift friendships and lead to feelings of isolation and guilt, particularly in a society that increasingly values motherhood.

"I Would Have Been A Terrible Mother": People In Their 40s, 50s, And Beyond Who Never Had Kids Are Sharing Whether Or Not They Regret It

Choosing not to have children can lead to personal fulfillment when it aligns with genuine desires, not societal expectations or fear of loneliness.

How to date when you're a woman who doesn't want children

The number of adults choosing to be childfree is growing in the United States, with 44% of adults aged 18 to 49 reporting it's unlikely they will have children.
Reasons for choosing to be childfree range from concerns about the climate crisis and financial constraints to personal preferences and anxiety about pregnancy.
Women who choose to be childfree still face societal expectations, gender roles, and potential relationship challenges, but deserve support in making their own choices.

I chose not to have kids. I need to make a bigger effort to stay friends with those who did.

Choosing to be child-free can shift friendships and lead to feelings of isolation and guilt, particularly in a society that increasingly values motherhood.

"I Would Have Been A Terrible Mother": People In Their 40s, 50s, And Beyond Who Never Had Kids Are Sharing Whether Or Not They Regret It

Choosing not to have children can lead to personal fulfillment when it aligns with genuine desires, not societal expectations or fear of loneliness.

How to date when you're a woman who doesn't want children

The number of adults choosing to be childfree is growing in the United States, with 44% of adults aged 18 to 49 reporting it's unlikely they will have children.
Reasons for choosing to be childfree range from concerns about the climate crisis and financial constraints to personal preferences and anxiety about pregnancy.
Women who choose to be childfree still face societal expectations, gender roles, and potential relationship challenges, but deserve support in making their own choices.
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Joy to the World or Why Its Important to Be Kind During the Holidays

The impact of emotional baggage from childhood is profound, affecting individuals long into adulthood, especially during the holiday season.
#beauty-standards

On Being the Family's "Ugly Duckling"

Beauty was a significant influence on self-worth and identity for the author's mother and shaped family dynamics regarding appearance.

Miss Manners: I started going gray at 14 and I still don't have a good response to these comments

Society often imposes unrealistic beauty standards, particularly regarding aging and hair color, leading to unsolicited comments that can negatively impact self-esteem.

On Being the Family's "Ugly Duckling"

Beauty was a significant influence on self-worth and identity for the author's mother and shaped family dynamics regarding appearance.

Miss Manners: I started going gray at 14 and I still don't have a good response to these comments

Society often imposes unrealistic beauty standards, particularly regarding aging and hair color, leading to unsolicited comments that can negatively impact self-esteem.
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#mental-health

Just Before My Mom Died, She Said 6 Words That Changed My Life - And Made Me A Better Mother

The pressures of motherhood create feelings of inadequacy and fear of judgment among women.

Do you tell yourself you're happier than you are? Stop the gaslighting

Social pressure to be happier can exacerbate feelings of suffocation and hopelessness, especially during challenging times.

How My Shame Became My Strength

Women face pervasive shame rooted in societal expectations affecting their mental health and wellbeing, particularly among teenage girls.

Do You Feel Overwhelmed?

Invisible labor remains undervalued and contributes to mental distress, particularly among women dealing with societal expectations.

I Hate That Bitch. I Owe Her Everything.

Competition can drive personal achievement and growth.
Rivalries can lead to unexpected gratitude and mentorship.
Societal expectations shape women's perspectives on success and fulfillment.

No wonder young single women are lonelier than ever. Where is their community? | Georgina Lawton

Loneliness affects single women significantly, defying common perceptions that it's primarily an elderly issue.

Just Before My Mom Died, She Said 6 Words That Changed My Life - And Made Me A Better Mother

The pressures of motherhood create feelings of inadequacy and fear of judgment among women.

Do you tell yourself you're happier than you are? Stop the gaslighting

Social pressure to be happier can exacerbate feelings of suffocation and hopelessness, especially during challenging times.

How My Shame Became My Strength

Women face pervasive shame rooted in societal expectations affecting their mental health and wellbeing, particularly among teenage girls.

Do You Feel Overwhelmed?

Invisible labor remains undervalued and contributes to mental distress, particularly among women dealing with societal expectations.

I Hate That Bitch. I Owe Her Everything.

Competition can drive personal achievement and growth.
Rivalries can lead to unexpected gratitude and mentorship.
Societal expectations shape women's perspectives on success and fulfillment.

No wonder young single women are lonelier than ever. Where is their community? | Georgina Lawton

Loneliness affects single women significantly, defying common perceptions that it's primarily an elderly issue.
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#parenting

This Dad Shares His Super-Smart Strategies For Helping His Sons Fight Gender Norms

Encouraging boys to express themselves outside traditional gender norms is crucial for their development.

Zoe Kravtiz on whether she wants to have children: 'There's a lot of pressure'

Zoë Kravitz expresses her uncertainty about motherhood, prioritizing personal fulfillment over societal pressures about having children.

4 Things You Need To Tell Your Eldest Daughter Every Day

Raising an eldest daughter can elevate pressures and expectations due to societal stereotypes, which can lead to increased anxiety among firstborns.

This Dad Shares His Super-Smart Strategies For Helping His Sons Fight Gender Norms

Encouraging boys to express themselves outside traditional gender norms is crucial for their development.

Zoe Kravtiz on whether she wants to have children: 'There's a lot of pressure'

Zoë Kravitz expresses her uncertainty about motherhood, prioritizing personal fulfillment over societal pressures about having children.

4 Things You Need To Tell Your Eldest Daughter Every Day

Raising an eldest daughter can elevate pressures and expectations due to societal stereotypes, which can lead to increased anxiety among firstborns.
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#family-planning

Longing for Grandchildren When Your Child Doesn't Want Kids

Many Gen Xers and baby boomers are facing the reality of not becoming grandparents due to declining birth rates and personal choices of their children.

13 Things to Say When Someone Asks Why You Haven't Had a Baby Yet

Pressure on couples to have children can lead to uncomfortable inquiries from family and friends, highlighting societal expectations around reproduction.

Longing for Grandchildren When Your Child Doesn't Want Kids

Many Gen Xers and baby boomers are facing the reality of not becoming grandparents due to declining birth rates and personal choices of their children.

13 Things to Say When Someone Asks Why You Haven't Had a Baby Yet

Pressure on couples to have children can lead to uncomfortable inquiries from family and friends, highlighting societal expectations around reproduction.
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#family-dynamics

Meet the 'breadwinner wives': Their families are happier and more fulfilled, it's just the rest of the world that has a problem

Breadwinner wives challenge traditional gender roles while facing societal pressures and economic realities that often misunderstand their contribution.

21 "Teeny-Weeny" Hills People Are Willing To Die On Over And Over Again

Workplaces often overlook the familial needs of single individuals and those without children, assuming they should bear additional burdens.
Single individuals and those without children may feel marginalized and face unfair expectations regarding work-life balance.

Meet the 'breadwinner wives': Their families are happier and more fulfilled, it's just the rest of the world that has a problem

Breadwinner wives challenge traditional gender roles while facing societal pressures and economic realities that often misunderstand their contribution.

21 "Teeny-Weeny" Hills People Are Willing To Die On Over And Over Again

Workplaces often overlook the familial needs of single individuals and those without children, assuming they should bear additional burdens.
Single individuals and those without children may feel marginalized and face unfair expectations regarding work-life balance.
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#women-empowerment

'A whole lot of women out here are not aspiring to be humble': Kamala Harris strikes a chord on 'Call Her Daddy' with a rejection of gender stereotypes

Kamala Harris advocates that women shouldn't feel pressured to be humble and emphasizes uplifting each other, challenging traditional expectations.

The Silent Struggle: Inside the Motherhood Paradox

The motherhood paradox imposes impossible standards on women, leading to stress and guilt that negatively impact both personal and professional lives.

Why women face a 'success paradox' at work

Women face complex societal pressures that distort their definitions of success, making authentic self-definition challenging.

'Mormon Wives' Stars Taylor & Mayci Reveal What's Happened Since The Finale

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives explores the complexities of faith, personal identity, and societal expectations amidst a reality TV backdrop.

'A whole lot of women out here are not aspiring to be humble': Kamala Harris strikes a chord on 'Call Her Daddy' with a rejection of gender stereotypes

Kamala Harris advocates that women shouldn't feel pressured to be humble and emphasizes uplifting each other, challenging traditional expectations.

The Silent Struggle: Inside the Motherhood Paradox

The motherhood paradox imposes impossible standards on women, leading to stress and guilt that negatively impact both personal and professional lives.

Why women face a 'success paradox' at work

Women face complex societal pressures that distort their definitions of success, making authentic self-definition challenging.

'Mormon Wives' Stars Taylor & Mayci Reveal What's Happened Since The Finale

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives explores the complexities of faith, personal identity, and societal expectations amidst a reality TV backdrop.
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The Path Less Traveled: Redefining Success Beyond Parenthood

Society imposes unrealistic expectations of success tied to marriage and children, creating emotional challenges for those facing infertility.
True fulfillment comes from acknowledging and embracing diverse life choices, not just those that conform to traditional family structures.

Let Your Tears Flow: The Proven Benefits of Crying - Tiny Buddha

Crying is a courageous expression of emotions that aids self-understanding and emotional regulation.

WATCH: A secret gay love affair unfolds behind the facade of this midcentury American Dream - Queerty

The Greatest explores the conflict between societal expectations and personal fulfillment through the struggles of a young couple in 1960s New York.
#parental-stress

Today's Parents: Exhausted, Burned Out and Perpetually Behind'

Parental stress has reached alarming levels, prompting a surgeon general's warning due to the pressures of intensive parenting.

Parents in the US lack support while expectations are high. As a mom and an educator, I'm not surprised we have a crisis.

Parental stress is a public health crisis exacerbated by insufficient support and society's unrealistic expectations, leading to feelings of failure among parents.

Today's Parents: Exhausted, Burned Out and Perpetually Behind'

Parental stress has reached alarming levels, prompting a surgeon general's warning due to the pressures of intensive parenting.

Parents in the US lack support while expectations are high. As a mom and an educator, I'm not surprised we have a crisis.

Parental stress is a public health crisis exacerbated by insufficient support and society's unrealistic expectations, leading to feelings of failure among parents.
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#personal-fulfillment

Sick of the 9-to-5 grind, he ditched the city to live in a tiny house in the woods. Now, he says he can get by on $750 a month.

Anders Boisen's lifestyle change to living in a tiny house was driven by a desire to escape societal conformity and embrace environmental values.

Zoe Kravitz on whether she wants to have children: 'There's a lot of pressure'

Zoë Kravitz contemplates motherhood, questioning societal pressures while embracing personal fulfillment in her career and engagement to Channing Tatum.

Sick of the 9-to-5 grind, he ditched the city to live in a tiny house in the woods. Now, he says he can get by on $750 a month.

Anders Boisen's lifestyle change to living in a tiny house was driven by a desire to escape societal conformity and embrace environmental values.

Zoe Kravitz on whether she wants to have children: 'There's a lot of pressure'

Zoë Kravitz contemplates motherhood, questioning societal pressures while embracing personal fulfillment in her career and engagement to Channing Tatum.
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If Only by Vigdis Hjorth review love will tear her apart

Ida's chaotic pursuit of love illustrates the turmoil and transformations women face when entangled in passion, challenging societal expectations.
#motherhood

The Abandoners by Begona Gomez Urzaiz review absent mothers

Societal pressures in Spain shape maternal identities, leading some mothers to conceal their true feelings about childcare.
The tension between motherhood and personal ambition is a recurring theme among female writers.

Park Slope mom Molly Roden Winter reveals the ups and downs of open marriage in racy new memoir: 'I'm not a pearl-clutcher'

Exploring polyamory in marriage can lead to challenges like jealousy and communication issues.
The societal expectation of mothers as selfless beings is challenged by the concept of being 'self-full.'

I Like Being a Mom. Here's Why I Don't Usually Admit It.

The challenges of voicing positive feelings about motherhood amid societal expectations and personal fears.

Why It's Not Selfish For You To Take Quality Time For Yourself " Read Now!

Society often trains women to seek childcare help only for specific tasks, leading to feelings of constraint and lack of personal time.
Many mothers experience a lack of quality time for self-care and personal activities due to societal expectations of dedicating all time and energy to childcare.

This Woman Won't Apologize For Making Being A Mom Her "Whole Personality"

The role of motherhood is often criticized and downplayed, but it is one of the most important and fulfilling jobs in the world.
Women are caught in a double bind, being told not to let motherhood consume their identities while also being expected to be perfect mothers.

The Abandoners by Begona Gomez Urzaiz review absent mothers

Societal pressures in Spain shape maternal identities, leading some mothers to conceal their true feelings about childcare.
The tension between motherhood and personal ambition is a recurring theme among female writers.

Park Slope mom Molly Roden Winter reveals the ups and downs of open marriage in racy new memoir: 'I'm not a pearl-clutcher'

Exploring polyamory in marriage can lead to challenges like jealousy and communication issues.
The societal expectation of mothers as selfless beings is challenged by the concept of being 'self-full.'

I Like Being a Mom. Here's Why I Don't Usually Admit It.

The challenges of voicing positive feelings about motherhood amid societal expectations and personal fears.

Why It's Not Selfish For You To Take Quality Time For Yourself " Read Now!

Society often trains women to seek childcare help only for specific tasks, leading to feelings of constraint and lack of personal time.
Many mothers experience a lack of quality time for self-care and personal activities due to societal expectations of dedicating all time and energy to childcare.

This Woman Won't Apologize For Making Being A Mom Her "Whole Personality"

The role of motherhood is often criticized and downplayed, but it is one of the most important and fulfilling jobs in the world.
Women are caught in a double bind, being told not to let motherhood consume their identities while also being expected to be perfect mothers.
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People Are Sharing The Most Out-Of-Touch Things They've Heard A Rich Person Say

Society often expects individuals to safeguard possessions, which may not reflect personal values or circumstances.

The selfishness secret: embrace the liberating, life-enhancing power of saying no

The power of setting boundaries and saying 'I'd rather not' is a key lesson for building a better life.
#gender-roles

Ex-Wife by Ursula Parrott review Bridget Jones in the jazz age

Exploration of complex emotions and societal expectations faced by a woman in the early 20th century.

Opinion: My family calls me unruly. So what if I am?

Society's labels on young women challenging traditional career paths and expectations

She lived so much life so quickly': the lost tapes of Elizabeth Taylor

Taylor Swift and Elizabeth Taylor compared in handling societal expectations and restrictions.

There Are No Such Things as Gendered Emotions

Societal expectations on gender roles influence children's expressions and emotions, with girls generally smiling more than boys as they get older.

Ex-Wife by Ursula Parrott review Bridget Jones in the jazz age

Exploration of complex emotions and societal expectations faced by a woman in the early 20th century.

Opinion: My family calls me unruly. So what if I am?

Society's labels on young women challenging traditional career paths and expectations

She lived so much life so quickly': the lost tapes of Elizabeth Taylor

Taylor Swift and Elizabeth Taylor compared in handling societal expectations and restrictions.

There Are No Such Things as Gendered Emotions

Societal expectations on gender roles influence children's expressions and emotions, with girls generally smiling more than boys as they get older.
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Women need more sleep than men do, studies say

Women require about 11 minutes more sleep per night than men, influenced by hormones and societal responsibilities.
#single-life

Opinion | Men Fear Me, Society Shames Me, and I Love My Life

The article highlights the author's fulfillment and joy in defying societal expectations by living a single, childless life at almost 50 years old.

Older Adults Who Never Got Married Are Revealing The "Myths" About Being Single Later In Life

The myth of loneliness and regret associated with being single later in life is debunked by older adults who value independence and fulfilling relationships outside of marriage.
Choosing to be single after negative relationship experiences can lead to personal growth and happiness, debunking the myth that there must be something wrong with people who are single or never married.

Opinion | Men Fear Me, Society Shames Me, and I Love My Life

The article highlights the author's fulfillment and joy in defying societal expectations by living a single, childless life at almost 50 years old.

Older Adults Who Never Got Married Are Revealing The "Myths" About Being Single Later In Life

The myth of loneliness and regret associated with being single later in life is debunked by older adults who value independence and fulfilling relationships outside of marriage.
Choosing to be single after negative relationship experiences can lead to personal growth and happiness, debunking the myth that there must be something wrong with people who are single or never married.
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How Right and Wrong Ways to Be Queer Are Changing Fiction

Navigating contradictions and expectations as a queer person in America in 2024 is complex and exhausting.

What took him so long? Colin finally likes Penelope back in 'Bridgerton' season 3

Bridgerton series follows classic romance tropes in relationships like 'fake relationship,' 'enemies to lovers,' and 'friends to lovers.'

Alice Munro Reinvigorated the Short Story

Rebel against societal expectations and write fearlessly, merging personal experiences into fiction.

I was grieving on a very biological level': how three women got through menopause

Women's menopause experiences vary in treatment, attitudes, and challenges, particularly for women of color who may face additional barriers and expectations.
#identity

Los hombres me temen, la sociedad me limita y yo amo mi vida

Challenge in creating feminist porn lies in women desiring freedom. Embracing life at almost 50 without traditional expectations can lead to fulfilling alternatives.

A 19th-century bookbinder struggles with race and identity in 'The Library Thief'

In The Library Thief, Kuchenga Shenje explores race, identity, categorization, and societal expectations through a historical fiction lens.

Los hombres me temen, la sociedad me limita y yo amo mi vida

Challenge in creating feminist porn lies in women desiring freedom. Embracing life at almost 50 without traditional expectations can lead to fulfilling alternatives.

A 19th-century bookbinder struggles with race and identity in 'The Library Thief'

In The Library Thief, Kuchenga Shenje explores race, identity, categorization, and societal expectations through a historical fiction lens.
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#self-awareness

Confronting the audience and breaking the fourth wall: why Black drama is getting meta

American Fiction explores metafiction through a self-aware narrative of a struggling Black academic turned successful author amidst societal expectations.

How Admitting Your Weaknesses Could Actually Make You Stronger - Tiny Buddha

Admitting weaknesses is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Culture fears showing weaknesses, but vulnerability is valuable.

Confronting the audience and breaking the fourth wall: why Black drama is getting meta

American Fiction explores metafiction through a self-aware narrative of a struggling Black academic turned successful author amidst societal expectations.

How Admitting Your Weaknesses Could Actually Make You Stronger - Tiny Buddha

Admitting weaknesses is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Culture fears showing weaknesses, but vulnerability is valuable.
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#relationships

'I didn't have it together' - Doireann Garrihy opens up to Ryan Tubridy on life in her 20s

Garrihy reflects on personal growth, relationships, and societal expectations in an interview with Tubridy.

'The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed' Announces An Exciting New Voice

The film 'The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed' by Joanna Arnow explores themes of relationships, self-identity, and societal expectations.

'I didn't have it together' - Doireann Garrihy opens up to Ryan Tubridy on life in her 20s

Garrihy reflects on personal growth, relationships, and societal expectations in an interview with Tubridy.

'The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed' Announces An Exciting New Voice

The film 'The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed' by Joanna Arnow explores themes of relationships, self-identity, and societal expectations.
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Juxtapoz Magazine - Birds on Cages: Sandra Chevrier's Superheroes Come to New York City

Sandra Chevrier's art series, Cages, explores women's liberation from societal expectations through powerful paintings and mixed-media works.

The perceived scrutiny is immense': how weddings can worsen eating and body image disorders

The pressure of weddings can exacerbate body image struggles and eating disorders.

Parental Leave Is Broken | The Walrus

Expectations on working parents
Disparities in parental leave uptake

Dating In Your 40s: How The F*ck Do I Even Do This?

Dating in your 40s can be challenging due to societal expectations and self-doubt.
Single moms face unique challenges like juggling dating with parental duties and concerns about partner's views on children.

A man fights expectations in 'I'm So Glad We Had This Time Together'

Vellekoop's graphic memoir explores his journey of breaking free from societal expectations.
The memoir portrays Vellekoop's early life, upbringing, and the influences that shaped his artistic talents.
#marriage

Ex-Wife Of Ultra-Religious Hasidic Husband Reveals Strict Rules She Had To Follow During Intimacy

Sara Glass detailed the struggles of being a closeted lesbian in an orthodox Jewish community and her journey towards self-acceptance.

Friendships can help us live longer. How can we prioritize them?

The value of friendship is being reevaluated after long-term social isolation.
The societal expectation of prioritizing marriage and the nuclear family makes prioritizing friendship difficult.

Ex-Wife Of Ultra-Religious Hasidic Husband Reveals Strict Rules She Had To Follow During Intimacy

Sara Glass detailed the struggles of being a closeted lesbian in an orthodox Jewish community and her journey towards self-acceptance.

Friendships can help us live longer. How can we prioritize them?

The value of friendship is being reevaluated after long-term social isolation.
The societal expectation of prioritizing marriage and the nuclear family makes prioritizing friendship difficult.
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30-Year-Olds Who Are Undecided On Kids Are Sharing Concerns About Parenthood Vs. Being Child-Free

Many people, especially women in childbearing years, are child-free but worry about parental FOMO and potential regret.
Statements about regret and societal expectations can cause younger people to question their desires, even if they feel firm in their decision.

How to Draw Your Way to a Life You'll Love - Tiny Buddha

Imagination is more important than knowledge.
Following societal expectations doesn't always lead to happiness.

Woman Nails The Reason Why Women Have More Issues With Their In-Laws Than Men

Maintaining a healthy relationship with in-laws can be challenging, especially for women
The patriarchy and societal expectations place unrealistic burden on women in in-law relationships

Mengyu Zhou's Bittersweet Portrait of Chinese Womanhood

Photographer Mengyu Zhou explores societal and familial expectations through intimate portraits of her cousin, highlighting struggles against traditional norms in modern China.

Five of the best novels about celebrity culture

Fame influences celebrities' lives despite their hidden struggles.

Overlooked No More: Ursula Parrott, Best-Selling Author and Voice for the Modern Woman

Ursula Parrott was a prolific writer whose works addressed women's challenges in attaining happiness and navigating societal expectations in the Jazz Age.

My Christian family wrecked my self-worth, but my found family is helping me heal - LGBTQ Nation

The struggle of finding employment post-graduation and navigating societal expectations in a challenging environment.
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Why These Chinese Working Mothers Don't Want More Babies

Chinese women resist pressure for more children despite government incentives, focusing on careers and single-child families.
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