The article addresses the challenges faced by autistic individuals in adapting to societal norms of adulthood, which often leads to burnout. It highlights how traditional advice, such as "fake it till you make it," fails to recognize the unique struggles of autistic adults. The narrative emphasizes that trying to fit into a societal template can be detrimental, revealing that the concept of a 'real adult' is a a myth. By recognizing and working with their distinct cognitive patterns, autistic adults can create a more authentic and sustainable approach to adulthood.
Society sells us a fantasy that 'real adults' effortlessly juggle everything... Well, secret files reveal: This mythical adult doesn't exist.
Even neurotypical people struggle with these expectations. But for autistic adults? It's like being handed a manual written in a made-up language.
Autistic adults who work with their wonderfully different brains instead of against them can redefine adulthood-for themselves and the world.
Adding more performance on top of that... why not just ask us to sprint while carrying a refrigerator? We need ways to succeed sustainably.
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