#modeling-behavior

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Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
20 hours ago

Psychology says the people who come across as genuinely disciplined aren't grinding through willpower or running on motivation, they're the ones who quietly removed the decisions from their day a long time ago, and what looks like iron self-control from the outside is just a life designed so the hard choice rarely shows up - Silicon Canals

Building a disciplined life relies on well-designed systems rather than sheer willpower or grit.
Psychology
fromMail Online
3 hours ago

Study reveals how 10-year-olds see getting OLD

Children perceive aging primarily as a process of physical decline, illness, and emotional loneliness.
fromMail Online
13 hours ago

Scientists fail to solve mystery of where all the missing teaspoons go

Teaspoons are an essential component of any research institute. Some people use a spoon daily to eat their mousse while many others use them for dispensing instant coffee, fishing tea bags out of cups, or adding sugar or milk and stirring their beverage of choice.
OMG science
Pets
fromMail Online
1 day ago

Is your dog aggressive? YOU are to blame, scientists say

Owner behavior, environment, and dog's history are key factors in dog attacks, not breed.
fromDefector
1 day ago

How Close To The Stanford Prison Experiment Can A Reality Show Get? | Defector

The contestants on Love Overboard (young hot singles, duh) do not know what they have signed up for. They have agreed to go on a reality television show sight-unseen, and now they are here, in what nobody wants to admit is essentially the Stanford Prison Experiment.
NYC LGBT
#ai
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

More Us Than It: Why LLMs Are More Transference Than Machine

Countertransference awareness is essential in navigating interactions with AI, emphasizing the need for accountability and understanding of distortions in perception.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

More Us Than It: Why LLMs Are More Transference Than Machine

Countertransference awareness is essential in navigating interactions with AI, emphasizing the need for accountability and understanding of distortions in perception.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Understanding Why Your Child Does Not Listen

Listening is a learned skill for children, not an inherent trait, and requires consistent teaching and understanding of their developmental stage.
Data science
fromInfoWorld
2 days ago

Why world models are AI's next frontier

World models learn the physical world, providing the common sense AI needs to achieve artificial general intelligence (AGI).
Law
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Can You "See" Criminal Intent? What Research Reveals

Criminal appearance and perceived remorse significantly influence legal outcomes and sentencing decisions.
Digital life
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who use social media but never post about themselves have separated the value of staying informed from the cost of participating in the performance - and that quiet withdrawal isn't disinterest or insecurity, it's one of the most deliberate digital choices a person can make in an era that treats visibility as currency - Silicon Canals

Many social media users prefer to observe rather than participate, valuing privacy and learning over broadcasting their thoughts.
#mistakes
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Readers reply: What would the world look like if people didn't make mistakes?

A world without mistakes would lack innovation, evolution, and creativity, leading to a monotonous existence.
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Readers reply: What would the world look like if people didn't make mistakes?

A world without mistakes would lack innovation, evolution, and creativity, leading to a monotonous existence.
Roam Research
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Return of the Research Notebook in Psychology

Lab notebooks are essential for accountability and credibility in psychological research, yet many psychologists do not utilize them.
US Elections
fromThe Walrus
4 days ago

Prediction Markets Turn Everything into a Wager-Even War | The Walrus

Prediction markets enable betting on global political events, raising concerns about insider trading and anonymity.
Health
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

The Many Faces of Procrastination and Health Behaviors

Procrastination can negatively impact health by delaying doctor visits and healthy behaviors.
Agile
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

How to Move Beyond the AI Pilot

Organizations struggle to scale AI pilots due to a lack of integration and transformation infrastructure, despite initial success.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
16 hours ago

Your Instinctual Drive Predicts What You Find Beautiful

Dominant motivational drives predict aesthetic preference with 77.6% accuracy, revealing a strong link between body responses and aesthetic choices.
Mindfulness
fromFast Company
1 day ago

4 science-backed skills to start flourishing and change your life

Flourishing is a learnable skill that can be developed through practice and simple exercises.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says the people who find it hardest to be taken care of when they're sick aren't independent, they're carrying a very old belief that needing someone was the fastest way to be left - Silicon Canals

Needing care from loved ones during illness can evoke feelings of vulnerability and discomfort, often rooted in deeper fears of abandonment.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

How Children Actually Learn Hope When the World Feels Uncertain

Hope for children is built through practice, experience, and relationships, not through reassurance or optimism.
Poker
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

What Old Psychology Can Teach Us About New Betting

Modern betting platforms leverage psychological factors to attract users, leading to widespread financial losses despite their appeal.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
19 hours ago

How to Build a More Participatory Democracy With Psychology

Voter turnout is influenced by motivation, ability, and the difficulty of voting, with systemic barriers disproportionately affecting marginalized groups.
#decision-making
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
2 weeks ago
Psychology

New study shows how the brain weighs evidence to make decisions

Free choices and forced decisions are processed similarly in the brain, despite feeling different to us.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Taking the Pressure Off of Decision-Making

Decision-making is often stressful due to unconscious biases and insufficient information, but clarity and self-awareness can ease the process.
Bootstrapping
fromExchangewire
2 weeks ago

The Importance of Confidence in an Unpredictable World

Agencies can help clients build confidence in decision-making by providing clarity, preparedness, and adaptability in uncertain business environments.
Philosophy
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

How to Make Better Decisions

Decision-making quality shapes life outcomes, with two main models: heroic-visionary and technocratic, each having significant flaws.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Taking the Pressure Off of Decision-Making

Decision-making is often stressful due to unconscious biases and insufficient information, but clarity and self-awareness can ease the process.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

The people who are constantly checking in on everyone else aren't necessarily nurturing. Many of them are quietly running an experiment to see if anyone will ever check in on them unprompted, and the experiment has been returning the same result for decades - Silicon Canals

Constantly reaching out to others can stem from childhood experiences of needing to earn attention.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The people who immediately tidy a room when they enter someone else's house aren't being helpful. They learned somewhere along the way that earning their place was the price of being allowed to stay in it - Silicon Canals

Conditional love in childhood leads to anxious attachment and compulsive helpfulness in adulthood.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

The Question Behind the Question

Emotional questions often underlie technical inquiries, highlighting the need for addressing patients' emotional needs in medical conversations.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

If you've been trying to change your life and keep ending up in the same patterns, the problem probably isn't the plan, it's that the part of you making the plan is the same part of you that built the life you're trying to change - Silicon Canals

Current mindset limits the ability to create meaningful change; the same self cannot solve the problems it created.
#friendship
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the adult who has acquaintances but no close friends isn't failing socially - they're often someone who learned early that real closeness came with conditions, and a polite distance has always felt safer than the bill - Silicon Canals

Emotional distance in friendships often stems from conditioned avoidance learned in childhood, not a failure of social skills.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who are very selective with friends aren't lacking in social skills - they're often carrying a level of social awareness so sharp that casual conversation feels hollow the moment it starts, and the energy it takes to pretend otherwise is a cost they've simply stopped being willing to pay - Silicon Canals

Selectivity in friendships reflects a deeper social awareness and the need for genuine connections rather than superficial interactions.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the adult who has acquaintances but no close friends isn't failing socially - they're often someone who learned early that real closeness came with conditions, and a polite distance has always felt safer than the bill - Silicon Canals

Emotional distance in friendships often stems from conditioned avoidance learned in childhood, not a failure of social skills.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who are very selective with friends aren't lacking in social skills - they're often carrying a level of social awareness so sharp that casual conversation feels hollow the moment it starts, and the energy it takes to pretend otherwise is a cost they've simply stopped being willing to pay - Silicon Canals

Selectivity in friendships reflects a deeper social awareness and the need for genuine connections rather than superficial interactions.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Some people don't stay quiet in arguments because they're calm, they stay quiet because they ran the math years ago and concluded that saying the thing costs more than swallowing it, and they've been paying the cheaper price so long they forgot it was a choice - Silicon Canals

Silence in arguments often results from an automatic cost-benefit analysis rather than emotional mastery or composure.
fromEurekAlert!
3 weeks ago
Online Community Development

Why some people change only when enough others do

Understanding individual thresholds for change and social networks can help overcome resistance to adopting new behaviors like climate change solutions.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

I'm 37 and I finally understand why I keep saying yes to things I want to say no to - psychology calls it "fawning" and once you see it you can't unsee it - Silicon Canals

Fawning behavior leads to difficulty in saying no, causing resentment despite self-awareness and understanding of its irrationality.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The people who answer 'I don't mind, whatever you want' aren't being easygoing. They're running a private calculation that having a preference has cost them more than it has ever earned them - Silicon Canals

Expressing preferences can feel costly, leading some individuals to suppress their desires to avoid conflict.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who are careful about who they let into their life aren't antisocial or cold - they've simply learned that the wrong person in your inner circle costs more than an empty seat, and that math only becomes obvious after you've paid the price at least once - Silicon Canals

Selective relationship management involves careful curation of connections to optimize emotional and mental capital, recognizing that proximity impacts well-being.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says the classiest people don't deal with rudeness by firing back or rising above it, they do something quieter, they let the silence sit for one extra beat, answer the actual question underneath, and leave the room without ever making the rude person the main character of the story - Silicon Canals

Classy responses to rudeness involve silence, addressing underlying issues, and avoiding making the rude person the focus.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Research suggests the habit of deferring happiness - 'I'll enjoy life when the kids leave, when I retire, when things calm down' - isn't patience, it's a pattern that simply moves the horizon forward no matter how much you achieve - Silicon Canals

Delaying happiness for future rewards leads to increased misery in the present without guaranteeing future satisfaction.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says deep thinkers don't realize the reason they feel disconnected from their own life isn't depression - it's that observation became a shelter they forgot how to leave - Silicon Canals

Chronic detachment often misdiagnosed as depression or stress may stem from a learned behavior of observing rather than experiencing life.
#motivation
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says people who want to change their lives but never start aren't lazy - they're waiting for a feeling of readiness that behavioral science confirms almost never arrives on its own - Silicon Canals

Feeling ready to act is often a byproduct of taking action, not a prerequisite.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says people who want to change their lives but never start aren't lazy - they're waiting for a feeling of readiness that behavioral science confirms almost never arrives on its own - Silicon Canals

Feeling ready to act is often a byproduct of taking action, not a prerequisite.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

When Anxiety Turns Us Into Control Freaks

Anxiety drives the need for control over ourselves and others, often leading to stress and repeating family patterns.
Psychology
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

Bonobos enjoy pretend tea parties and chimps think rationally: why apes are more like us than we ever thought

Kanzi, a bonobo, demonstrated the ability to engage in pretend play, challenging beliefs about the uniqueness of human behavior.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who can't stand being the center of attention even for something good - a birthday, an achievement, a toast - aren't shy or humble, they were raised in an environment where being seen too clearly was a setup for criticism or punishment, and the flush they feel when a room turns toward them is a threat response their body has never retired, even for love - Silicon Canals

Some individuals struggle with positive attention due to learned survival responses from childhood, where visibility equated to vulnerability.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says people who genuinely know their worth don't announce it or defend it, they operate with a quiet certainty that makes negotiation, justification, and proving themselves feel like a foreign language - Silicon Canals

Genuine confidence stems from self-awareness, not the need to broadcast one's worth or achievements.
Psychology
fromMail Online
4 days ago

What's YOUR 'money type'? Scientists say there are 3 financial styles

Money behavior types influence financial habits, with three distinct styles: Financial Explorers, Habitual Savers, and The Disengaged.
Psychology
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

What really controls our appetite hunger, stress or habit?

Hunger, appetite, and fullness are regulated by different brain areas, influencing our eating behaviors and responses to food.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Behavioral scientists have found that how old you feel inside predicts cognitive health in later life - independent of your actual age - Silicon Canals

Subjective age significantly influences brain health, with younger feelings correlating to healthier brain structures.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says people who keep adjusting their personality to suit the room aren't socially skilled - they're exhausted, and they've been exhausted since childhood - Silicon Canals

Constantly adapting one's personality can lead to exhaustion and loss of personal identity, rather than being a sign of social skill.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Some people aren't the planner in every friend group because they like control. They became the planner because they noticed, early and painfully, that when they didn't initiate, nobody did, and being forgotten felt worse than doing all the work - Silicon Canals

Chronic planners often act out of a fear of being forgotten rather than a desire for control or dominance.
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

The Economics of Trust

Trust is not merely a social nicety - it is infrastructure. Across decades of empirical research, economists and political scientists have converged on a striking finding: societies and individuals with higher levels of interpersonal trust consistently outperform their low-trust counterparts on nearly every measurable dimension of economic and institutional life.
Psychology
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology suggests people who follow through on small promises to themselves aren't just building habits - they're constructing the internal evidence that they can be trusted, which is the actual foundation of lasting self-discipline - Silicon Canals

Self-discipline is shaped by accumulated evidence of personal commitments rather than mere willpower.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says the quietest person in a group conversation often isn't the least engaged - they're often the one processing at a depth the loudest voices in the room have stopped bothering to reach - Silicon Canals

Silence in group settings often indicates deep cognitive processing rather than disengagement.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

How Judgments and Opinions Can Make Matters Worse

Misleading thoughts and emotions can disrupt performance, but psychological flexibility allows individuals to pursue goals despite distress.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Why We Call It Psychology, Not Animology

For Plato, psyche meant something like what we'd now call mind -understood as a complex system requiring governance. The psyche had distinct parts: a reasoning part that deliberates, a spirited part that feels emotion and courage, and an appetitive part that desires. Each part has its own function and its own form of excellence. And crucially, these parts need to be governed-integrated under what Plato called constitutional self-rule.
Philosophy
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Research suggests that high intelligence doesn't protect against bad decisions - it makes people better at constructing convincing justifications for the bad decisions they were already going to make - Silicon Canals

Higher intelligence can lead to greater polarization rather than alignment on contested facts.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

People Don't Just Update Beliefs, They Test Them

Understanding psychological change requires recognizing the role of control and mastery in actively pursuing change despite familiar limitations.
fromNature
3 weeks ago

Dopaminergic mechanisms of dynamical social specialization - Nature

Social foraging strategies illustrate the balance between competition and cooperation, where individuals either produce resources or exploit the efforts of others, navigating ecological and social constraints.
Psychology
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Why We Don't Change-Even When We Know What's Wrong

Insight alone is insufficient for change; real experiences are necessary to challenge ingrained beliefs and expectations.
Psychology
fromFast Company
3 weeks ago

Stop trying to 'educate' people into changing. Science proves it doesn't work

False assumptions hinder change; simply providing information does not guarantee behavior change.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Our Inner Life Rules: Habit or Choice?

Inner rules governing self-treatment are often inherited and unexamined, with therapy providing a chance to consciously choose them.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Science of Buying

Effective influence requires understanding how individuals process information, assess risk, and build trust rather than applying standardized pressure tactics.
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Psychology says people who always pay with exact change display these 7 personality traits that go beyond just being organized - Silicon Canals

They're displaying a fascinating set of personality traits that go much deeper than having their finances sorted. 1) They have exceptional impulse control Think about what it takes to always have exact change ready. You need to resist the urge to spend those coins on vending machines or leave them as tips. You have to plan ahead, knowing what you'll buy and preparing accordingly.
Psychology
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

3 Ways to Convince Anyone to Do Anything for You

Charisma is a learnable skill developed through nonverbal communication channels including smiling, voice modulation, and body language that significantly increases persuasion and success in sales.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Daily Prophets: How Your Brain Predicts the Future

I am a worrier, and have been for most of my life. At some point, someone dear and smart teased me that I worry about the wrong things. The things that hit me, she noted, were never the things I worried about. For a while that left me feeling like an incompetent worrier-until my research caught up. I realized that the things I worry about often don't end up hurting me precisely because worrying helps me diffuse them ahead of time.
Psychology
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Feeling of Learning Can Be a Psychological Illusion

Cognitive fluency—the ease of processing information—creates an illusion of learning that often fails to translate into actual skill or long-term retention.
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