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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

There's a specific kind of loneliness that only hits people who are very good at listening. Everyone trusts them with the heavy stuff, everyone seeks them out when things fall apart, and nobody ever thinks to ask them how they're doing because the role was assigned so early it became invisible. - Silicon Canals

Good listeners often carry unaddressed emotional burdens, as their role can stem from childhood experiences of absorbing others' pain.
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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

The person who always drives, always plans the route, and always knows where everyone's coat is isn't Type A. They grew up in a household where someone had to be the infrastructure, and they never got reassigned. - Silicon Canals

Highly organized, detail-oriented people often developed this trait in childhood by becoming the 'infrastructure child' who managed family logistics out of necessity, not personality type.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

The person who always drives, always plans the route, and always knows where everyone's coat is isn't Type A. They grew up in a household where someone had to be the infrastructure, and they never got reassigned. - Silicon Canals

Highly organized, detail-oriented people often developed this trait in childhood by becoming the 'infrastructure child' who managed family logistics out of necessity, not personality type.
Parenting
fromFast Company
11 months ago

How your family dynamics influence your personality at work

Childhood family roles influence adult behaviors and relationships, leading to patterns of repetition or change.
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fromPsychology Today
7 months ago

3 Roles That Children of Narcissists Carry for Life

Narcissistic parents are typically more focused on appearances and admiration from others and have little mental space to care for children the way healthy parents might. They can be emotionally needy and constantly crave validation from those around them, including their children. Such environments exact a heavy psychological toll from children, ranging from a lack of boundaries to fear of commitment and abandonment, which can sometimes take a lifetime to heal.
Mental health
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