Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoI spent most of my twenties believing that needing less than other people was a strength. It took a decade of watching people who actually asked for things get them to realize I hadn't transcended need, I had just gotten so good at preemptive refusal that nobody ever had the chance to say yes - Silicon Canals
Avoidant attachment can prevent meaningful connections by valuing self-sufficiency over emotional engagement, leading to a life of preemptive refusal.
