As Valentine's Day and my 64th birthday approach, I'm reflecting on my experiences as a single, asexual person. I realize that while asexuality doesn't preclude romantic relationships, I've never truly been in love. My early encounters with boys were fraught with confusion and left me feeling isolated. I watched as my friends paired off in high school, feeling defective and unable to align with their experiences. Yet, through AVEN's insights, I recognize that love can manifest differently for everyone, including those of us who identify as asexual.
In eighth grade, my first date turned into an uncomfortable experience, leaving me feeling isolated and unprepared for the complexities of relationships.
As I entered high school, I felt increasingly out of place as my friends paired off, leading me to question my own desirability and experiences.
Reflecting on my experiences, I realize being asexual does not prevent me from having romantic feelings; love can exist in various forms.
Despite numerous pivotal moments, I have never experienced love like many others do, framing my understanding of relationships around my asexual identity.
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