This is how we do it: As I got older, I struggled to have an erection then my wife introduced her alter ego, Miss Fifi'

The article discusses the journey of a couple, Violet and the narrator, who have navigated the challenges of aging on their sexual relationship. Initially enjoying a vibrant sex life, the narrator began experiencing erectile difficulties about ten years ago, causing feelings of inadequacy. Despite these challenges, Violet has taken the initiative to foster intimacy through role-play as 'Miss Fifi' and the use of prompt cards to facilitate communication about desires. This creative approach has allowed them to maintain their bond, enjoying regular intimacy while adapting to changing capabilities.

Violet has always been supportive and found creative ways to maintain intimacy, such as adopting a seductive alter ego and using playful prompts.

Despite challenges with aging and sexual performance, Violet and I have developed a unique way to communicate desires and maintain our connection.

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