What business is your family in that would be damaged by seeing a cousin's underarm hair? And what sort of guests are you expecting who would dare to criticize the bridegroom's family to his face? The appearance you describe is not that unusual in today's society.
The chance that everyone will be gawking at her and ignoring the bride is about zero. There is a greater chance, though not a large one, that people will talk about her — later.
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