After a six-year hiatus following the deaths of her parents, the author brought her family to visit her sister with a rare genetic condition. Balancing life changes and the pandemic, the author felt unprepared to reconnect with her nonverbal sister, who requires constant care. Despite efforts to support her sister from afar, the author struggled with the thought of nurturing her children's connection to their aunt. The family's history of love shaped their dynamics, making the author question how best to bridge these gaps.
I worried that I wouldn't be able to nurture a sense of love between her and my kids - so I kept stalling.
Even as my oldest son started asking when we would see his only aunt, I worried about the connection.
With our parents gone, I diligently handled my sister's expenses and logistics of her care from my home.
I never intended to stay away for so long. Sure, life got in the way, but the truth is I kept putting it off.
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