I Prayed For Years That No One Would Discover The Issue With My Private Parts. Now I'm Done Hiding.
Briefly

On the car ride to the doctor's office for the final appointment before surgery, my father and I didn't talk. It was a continuation of years of silence.
Trauma is a stubborn thing. It doesn't just disappear. It shifts shape. After Dr. R's success in descending my testicle, I lived in fear of it happening again.
Once in the examination room, it was another high-tech affair. This time, it involved my standing in front of the patient examination table with my pants down - my father stood in the corner because why the hell not?
My entire body exhaled. I could have floated to the ceiling. One week from my bar mitzvah, I was a new man. If there were anything that could prove God's existence, this was it.
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