The article reflects on the pervasive desire to feel special, which often manifests in various aspects of life, from personal relationships to professional ambitions. This pursuit of 'specialness' can lead individuals to exhaust themselves while neglecting their true selves and ordinary emotions. The author, drawing from personal experiences, discusses the burdensome effort behind trying to impress others and how an overemphasis on achieving this 'special' status detracts from authenticity and genuine connections. Ultimately, the article serves as a reflection on the costs of striving for a perceived higher self-worth and the exhaustion that accompanies it.
The wish to be special can lie at the heart of everything we do, influencing our relationships and the effort we put into our work.
Moment by moment, my analyst helped me to see the high cost of striving to be special, often at the expense of my true self.
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