Help! I'm Insecure and Don't Trust My Partner
Briefly

The author, at 66, struggles with anxiety and insecurity in her newfound romantic relationship, particularly regarding her partner's interactions with a female friend. Observing their connection leads to feelings of inadequacy and fear of abandonment, prompting her to suppress these emotions instead of addressing them openly. A therapist highlights the need to reframe her anxious thoughts, urging her to differentiate between constructive and destructive anxiety while recognizing her partner's role in their relationship dynamics. This perspective could pave the way for more secure attachments and trust in the relationship.
At age 66, the author expresses frustration over insecurities in her relationship, particularly when observing her partner's bond with another woman.
The therapist emphasizes understanding anxiety as a signal rather than a label, urging the individual to distinguish between healthy and harmful anxiety.
Read at www.nytimes.com
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