The letter discusses a person's dilemma regarding their brother's separation. They are reluctant to get involved as outside family members pressure them to intervene. The response advises setting boundaries and avoiding gossip. It also suggests directly communicating with the brother and his wife. Additionally, the article touches on rekindling a friendship with a previously distant friend, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging one's expectations in the relationship to prevent disappointment.
When you are approached, stop whoever is talking to you before they say too much, and explain that you are unwilling to discuss your brother and sister-in-law's business.
Call your brother and let him know what's happening. Suggest that he and his wife come to terms before the family makes things even messier.
Check your expectations before you reach out again. What do you want and need to be fulfilled in this friendship?
She seemed genuinely interested in reconnecting. I would like to rekindle our friendship, but I worry that I will get my feelings hurt again if she remains distant.
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