When you open up about the highs and lows of your relationship, you invite others into the most intimate parts of your life. While sharing can be a way to process your thoughts and feelings, it can also create a situation where others feel they have a say in the direction of your relationship.
Mia often vents to her best friend, Lisa, about Elan's forgetfulness and how it sometimes drives her crazy. Seeing Mia repeatedly upset, Lisa started to believe that Elan was no good for Mia and advised her to break up with him. However, Lisa doesn't see the tender moments when Elan surprises Mia with breakfast in bed or how he's always the first to apologize.
It's important to remember that when you share your relationship struggles with others, they may form opinions based on limited information. They don't live in your shoes or experience your relationship like you do. Being selective about what you share helps ensure that the advice you receive is more balanced.
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