Harriette Cole: Is there a way to compromise on having a baby?
Briefly

The article addresses a wife's conflict with her husband's desire for a biological child while she feels content as a stepmother and focuses on her career. Despite his compliments and encouragement regarding her potential as a mother, she remains firm in her stance against having children together. The advice suggests the importance of direct communication, acknowledging past misunderstandings, and being aware that feelings may evolve over time regarding parenthood. Additionally, a second letter reveals strained family dynamics and highlights the challenge of improving relationships that feel distant or unwelcoming.
Tell him you appreciate his belief that you would be a great mom, but it is not something you want or are willing to commit to.
Apologize for not discussing this before you got married. Do know that should you get pregnant, your opinion might change.
I love children and thought I was open to them, but five years into marriage and stepmotherhood... I don't feel the need to have my own.
My son and I have a strange relationship. Since he moved out, things have been even more strained.
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