Dear Abby: My husband is drifting along as a low-paid professor. Is it time for an ultimatum?
Briefly

The article presents two letters to Abby addressing personal issues. The first writer, exhausted from being the primary earner, questions whether to push her adjunct professor husband for more income, highlighting the need for communication and financial consultation. The second writer grapples with mourning the loss of his parents while managing deep grief triggered by reminders of their relationship. Both cases emphasize the importance of support, communication, and seeking guidance in difficult personal situations.
"You and your husband should consult a financial adviser and discuss your situation. If the numbers don't add up, it is possible he may need to do something more to generate income."
"My problem is with certain triggers. For example, I can no longer go to the beach because I always remember my father's voice welcoming me home when I returned."
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