After a long friendship of shared journeys, a couple distanced themselves from a friend named Barb due to her negativity and increasing demands. When the couple's dynamics shifted due to health issues, Barb's behavior became intrusive, causing both partners to withdraw. Now, after years of silence, Barb attempts to reconnect with vague apologies and news of her health struggles. The couple feels a mix of guilt and manipulation, particularly the caring wife, but the consensus is to maintain their distance while discussing boundaries to protect their emotional health.
Barb's out-of-the-blue blanket apologies without acknowledging the issues suggest she's not really looking to make amends.
Even to acknowledge her messages would encourage more of this, so setting clear boundaries is essential for both of you.
Discussing this situation openly with your wife allows for a joint decision on setting boundaries that protect both your mental health.
It's important to express your feelings and ensure you're on the same page regarding the boundaries with Barb.
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