Dear Abby: My wife's mom thinks she's moving to our dream house with us
Briefly

A husband expresses his concern about his mother-in-law living with them for 14 years due to her depression. As he and his wife prepare to retire, they realize the need for independence and space. The husband feels her presence has caused friction between him and his wife. In response, advice suggests a family conference to explain the situation, encourage the mother-in-law to find her own home, and offer assistance with the transition for a smoother change.
You and your wife must explain that because you will be moving, it is time for Pat to find a place of her own. Expect that there will be some resistance, so offer to help her find a place and assist with the move.
You stated that your mother-in-law expects to live with you and her daughter in your new place... Another family conference is now in order, the sooner the better.
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