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UX design
fromMedium
2 days agoThe trust-latency gap: why the future of UX is intentionally slower
AI chat assistants use word-by-word responses to build anticipation and enhance user trust.
Marketing tech
fromAol
1 day ago3 ways PR teams can understand how AI sees their brand
AI is reshaping brand perception, requiring PR teams to understand AI-generated narratives for effective communication strategies.
#friendship
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoPsychology says good people with no close friends aren't the difficult ones - they're the ones who asked too little, gave too readily, made themselves so easy to be around that nobody ever felt the particular friction that closeness actually requires - Silicon Canals
Being overly agreeable can lead to loneliness, as it prevents deeper connections and true closeness in friendships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPeople who have a hard time maintaining close friendships aren't lonely because they can't connect - they're lonely because they connect quickly and withdraw quietly, and the withdrawal is so gradual and so habitual that most of them have never once watched themselves do it in real time - Silicon Canals
Many people excel at making friends but struggle to maintain those connections over time.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoI stopped being the one who called - and within eight months I had confirmed, without a single confrontation, exactly which friendships were real - Silicon Canals
Friendship maintenance can often stem from anxiety rather than genuine connection, revealing the disparity in perceived reciprocity among friends.
fromMetro Silicon Valley | Silicon Valley's Leading Weekly
1 hour agoAnon(ymous) in Mountain View | Metro Silicon Valley | Silicon Valley's Leading Weekly
Christopher Nolan's adaptation of The Odyssey, featuring a star-studded cast, tells the epic tale of Odysseus, who embarks on a ten-year journey to return home.
London music
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says keeping your phone on silent isn't a communication preference - it's a nervous system preference, and the people who need it most are often the ones who spent years being on-call for everyone else's emergencies - Silicon Canals
Constant phone notifications can trigger stress responses, leading some to keep their phones on silent as a protective measure for their nervous system.
#loneliness
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 hours agoThere's a particular kind of loneliness that only hits people who are well-liked. It's the loneliness of being chosen for your warmth but never asked about your winters. Everyone assumes the person who makes them feel good must already feel good, and the assumption becomes the cage. - Silicon Canals
Well-liked individuals often mask their struggles, leading to loneliness despite social popularity.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoThere's a specific kind of social performance I've perfected over twenty years of having no close friends. I can walk into any room, be warm and engaged for three hours, drive home in complete silence, and feel more alone than I did before I arrived - Silicon Canals
Social performance can mask deep loneliness, as individuals may connect outwardly but feel isolated internally.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day agoHate small talk? You may enjoy that dull' chat more than you think, say researchers
Paulo Coelho's assertion that he can endure defeats and pain but cannot tolerate boredom underscores a common human aversion to dull experiences. However, research indicates that avoiding seemingly tedious conversations can lead to missing out on significant mood boosts and health benefits derived from social connections.
Psychology
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPeople who hate phone calls aren't being rude - they grew up in homes where the phone ringing meant something was wrong - Silicon Canals
Phone calls often evoke anxiety due to their association with bad news and unpredictability, reinforcing a sense of threat over time.
Social media marketing
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day agoSocial media was once a great global conversation. Now it's just individuals locked into their own private worlds | Tom Whyman
Twitter once felt like a global conversation platform that shaped personal relationships and values, but usage has significantly declined over time.
Wearables
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology says the people who still wear a wristwatch in a world of smartphones aren't behind - they have a specific relationship with time and intention that most people quietly abandoned without realizing what they gave up - Silicon Canals
Wearing a watch reflects a conscious decision about one's relationship with time, transforming from a necessity to a personal statement.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoNot everyone who keeps their personal life private is guarded. Some people tried sharing openly once, watched it become currency in someone else's conversation, and simply adjusted the distribution list permanently. - Silicon Canals
Privacy often emerges as a response to the violation of trust and openness, not as an inherent trait of individuals.
#social-media
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoSocial media marketing
Psychology says people who never post on social media but check it every day aren't passive - they opted out of the performance while keeping the window, and keeping the window without paying the price is the most rational position available and the one the platform was specifically designed to make feel antisocial - Silicon Canals
Social media marketing
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoPsychology suggests people who browse social media but never post or comment aren't passive - they've simply opted out of the performance while retaining access to the information, which is a more deliberate choice than most people who post every day have ever thought to make - Silicon Canals
Deliberate non-participation on social media can be a psychologically aware choice, as most users are 'lurkers' who consume content without engaging.
Social media marketing
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says people who never post on social media but check it every day aren't passive - they opted out of the performance while keeping the window, and keeping the window without paying the price is the most rational position available and the one the platform was specifically designed to make feel antisocial - Silicon Canals
Silent scrollers on social media actively choose to observe rather than post, demonstrating discipline and self-control contrary to common perceptions.
Social media marketing
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoPsychology suggests people who browse social media but never post or comment aren't passive - they've simply opted out of the performance while retaining access to the information, which is a more deliberate choice than most people who post every day have ever thought to make - Silicon Canals
Deliberate non-participation on social media can be a psychologically aware choice, as most users are 'lurkers' who consume content without engaging.
#technology
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoThe real technology problem isn't screen time. It's that your phone learned your emotional patterns faster than any person in your life ever did, and now it meets needs that no human relationship has been given the chance to meet. - Silicon Canals
Phones have become the most emotionally attuned presence in people's lives, affecting their relationships with others.
#boundaries
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoThe person who always has headphones in - even when nothing is playing - isn't ignoring you, they built a portable wall years ago because somewhere along the way they learned that being available to everyone meant being known by no one - Silicon Canals
Creating boundaries in a culture of constant availability is essential for personal well-being and deep thinking.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoPeople who stop trying to be liked are often accused of having an attitude - by the people who most benefited from them having none - Silicon Canals
Setting boundaries often leads to others perceiving you as difficult or having an attitude problem, despite unchanged competence.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology says the people who are genuinely magnetic in conversation aren't the ones with the most interesting stories - they're the ones who've learned to make the person in front of them feel like the most interesting person in the room, and that specific skill has almost nothing to do with what you say - Silicon Canals
Magnetic people are those who listen actively rather than those who dominate conversations.
#communication
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says people who would always rather call than text aren't demanding more of your time - they're asking for the one thing that separates a real conversation from the performance of one, which is the sound of another person being alive on the other end, and that need is not inconvenient, it is human - Silicon Canals
Phone calls foster deeper connections than text messages, capturing nuances of emotion that typed words cannot convey.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says people who are cold through text but warm in person aren't being inconsistent - they're showing you exactly where their warmth lives, which is in the room, in the eye contact, in the unrepeatable presence of another human being, and the medium that removes all of those things removes most of what they have to give - Silicon Canals
People's communication styles reflect their emotional energy, not their intentions or feelings towards others.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says people who reply to messages within seconds aren't just efficient - they've built their sense of safety around being reachable, because somewhere in their past, being slow to respond had consequences - Silicon Canals
Instant responses to messages often stem from a psychological need to mitigate perceived threats rather than mere efficiency.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoPsychology says people who prefer texting to phone calls aren't being antisocial - they're protecting the quality of their thinking from the demands of real-time performance - Silicon Canals
Preference for texting is often a form of cognitive self-preservation rather than avoidance of communication.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology says the most self-centered people in any room aren't the ones who talk loudest - they're the ones who respond to every story you tell with a story about themselves, so automatically and so consistently that they've long since stopped noticing they do it - Silicon Canals
Self-absorbed individuals often hijack conversations by redirecting focus to their own experiences, showing a lack of empathy for others.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says if someone secretly dislikes you they'll almost never say it out loud - but their body will, in the microseconds before they've decided what their face is supposed to be doing, and learning to read those moments is one of the more uncomfortable social skills available to anyone willing to develop it - Silicon Canals
Microexpressions reveal true emotions faster than conscious control, providing insights into feelings that words may conceal.
fromPsychology Today
2 months agoSurprising Ways You're Being Judged During Video Calls
Intuition might have you thinking that face-to-face contact is better at getting the creative juices flowing than a voice-only phone call. A 2022 study led by business professor Melanie Brucks, however, found that videoconferencing was detrimental to creative idea generation because communicators feel obligated to stare at the screen. The experiment pitted videoconference groups against in-person groups to see which could find more creative uses for different objects.
Remote teams
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