#change

[ follow ]
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

If you've been trying to change your life and keep ending up in the same patterns, the problem probably isn't the plan, it's that the part of you making the plan is the same part of you that built the life you're trying to change - Silicon Canals

Current mindset limits the ability to create meaningful change; the same self cannot solve the problems it created.
Psychology
fromFast Company
3 days ago

How to find the right coach

Human beings desire change to improve themselves, but true development involves calibrating existing traits rather than reinventing oneself.
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

MasterChef review the BBC's disgraced cookery show is warmer, sharper and funnier than ever

MasterChef has embraced an unplanned change by hiring Anna Haugh and Grace Dent, two relatively low-profile women, to replace the long-serving male judges. This shift has resulted in a warmer, funnier, and sharper show, indicating a successful revitalization.
Television
#identity
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

People who accomplished remarkable things by 60 share one pattern - they changed their minds more often and their identity less often - Silicon Canals

Identity transformation can lead to personal fulfillment, while rigid opinions may hinder growth and authenticity.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks ago

Psychology says the reason most people never truly change isn't laziness - it's that they've built an identity around their flaws that they don't know who they'd be without them - Silicon Canals

People struggle to change not due to laziness, but because their flaws are integrated into their identity, making change feel like a threat to the self.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

People who accomplished remarkable things by 60 share one pattern - they changed their minds more often and their identity less often - Silicon Canals

Identity transformation can lead to personal fulfillment, while rigid opinions may hinder growth and authenticity.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks ago

Psychology says the reason most people never truly change isn't laziness - it's that they've built an identity around their flaws that they don't know who they'd be without them - Silicon Canals

People struggle to change not due to laziness, but because their flaws are integrated into their identity, making change feel like a threat to the self.
Exercise
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I'm 66 and I've started over so many times - new diet, new gym, new morning routine - that I finally had to sit with the uncomfortable question of whether starting over was the habit I was actually protecting - Silicon Canals

Starting over can become an addiction, allowing avoidance of the real work needed for lasting change.
Paris food
fromColossal
2 weeks ago

A Strong Gust of Wind Disrupts the Mundane in 'Jour de Vent'

Wind influences the destinies of characters in the animated short film 'Jour de Vent', showcasing themes of change and connection.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Why We Struggle With Change Even When We Want It

Change is inherently difficult, influenced by past experiences and the desire for familiarity, but self-awareness can facilitate lasting transformation.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

The Beginning Comes After the End by Rebecca Solnit review a manual for coping with change

Hope is a sense of potential for change, acknowledging the unknowability of the future and the importance of direction in progress.
#personal-growth
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

The people who changed the most in their fifties and sixties weren't the ones who read the most books about it - they were the ones who experienced something that made the cost of staying the same feel higher than the cost of changing - Silicon Canals

Real change often comes from life experiences rather than information or self-help resources.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

The people who changed the most in their fifties and sixties weren't the ones who read the most books about it - they were the ones who experienced something that made the cost of staying the same feel higher than the cost of changing - Silicon Canals

Real change often comes from life experiences rather than information or self-help resources.
Writing
fromIndieWire
2 weeks ago

'Euphoria' Season 3 Review: Sam Levinson's HBO Drama Grows Old and Boring

Rue's journey in Season 3 of 'Euphoria' highlights her struggle between addiction and the desire for change amidst perilous circumstances.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says people who want to change their lives but never start aren't lazy - they're waiting for a feeling of readiness that behavioral science confirms almost never arrives on its own - Silicon Canals

Feeling ready to act is often a byproduct of taking action, not a prerequisite.
Arts
fromwww.amny.com
3 weeks ago

In praise of upheaval: Women, art, and the refusal of stillness | amNewYork

Art emerges from upheaval, reflecting change as an inherent female quality and rejecting imposed stillness.
Photography
fromAnOther
1 month ago

Dykes: a New Photo Book Celebrating Queer Multiplicity

Emily Lipson's photo book Dykes celebrates community and change, featuring personal connections and a broad spectrum of dyke identity.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

The hardest conversation in any long friendship isn't the fight. It's the moment one person has genuinely changed and the other person keeps responding to who they used to be, and neither of them can name why every interaction now feels like a translation exercise. - Silicon Canals

Friendships often erode not through conflict, but when one person changes and the relationship fails to adapt.
Psychology
fromFast Company
2 months ago

Advice from a neuroscientist: How to be resilient after things fall apart

Life upheavals can cause loss and identity shift, but cultivating an expansive self-identity and accepting uncertainty fosters resilience and enables growth.
fromwww.npr.org
3 months ago

Opinion: The best gift we can give the departed is to keep their sparkle alive

"We call them 'Amusement Influencers' now," the man explained. "They cobble and post on Instagram." "And the reindeer?" "Well, Blitzen left our crew to go into Bitcoin. And Rudolph's red nose?" "Yes?" "Glows with a Waze guidance system now, so's I don't go down any wrong chimneys. Things change. Like your daughters," he told me. "I see they're grown. Can't just put dolls under the tree anymore. But I get reports. They're both smart, funny and kind."
US news
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
5 months ago

How the Familiar Becomes Invisible

Clinging to past versions of people and places causes suffering; adopting emotional flexibility and seeing each day as new fosters presence and appreciation.
fromBuzzFeed
7 months ago

People Are Sharing The "Basic Skills" Not Enough People Seem To Know

One time fairly recently, I was at a drive-thru and my total was something like $15.05. I handed the kid a $20 and a nickel that I had dug out of my change stash. He proceeded to start counting out coins from his drawer. I tried to help him understand that he just needed to give me a $5 bill, and he looked at me with the most incredulous
Food & drink
fromMedievalists.net
7 months ago

Medieval Goddesses of the Moon: Chang'e and Diana - Medievalists.net

In the Middle Ages, the moon was often imagined as a radiant and alluring deity. We will look at medieval literary and artistic depictions of two moon goddesses from different parts of the world: Chang'e and Diana. Both Chang'e and Diana are presented as deeply powerful and immensely beautiful, and they appear in many different contexts. What follows draws on research from my new book The Medieval Moon: A History of Haunting and Blessing, which studies the moon from a global perspective.
History
fromBustle
8 months ago

Here's Your Horoscope For Monday, July 28

This morning brings an influx of cosmic energy as the moon travels through Sagittarius, sparking curiosity and openness to change, allowing you to navigate unexpected shifts.
Relationships
fromColossal
9 months ago

A Dance and Film Series Choreographs Five Poetic Approaches to Beginning Again

As I navigated the aftermath of illness and trauma, art became my way of processing the darkness and rediscovering my light.
Film
fromPsychology Today
9 months ago

Each Night a New World: Building Resilience Through Dreams

Resilience can be developed through small, incremental exposures to new situations and circumstances, helping individuals adapt and thrive amid life's inevitable changes.
Mindfulness
fromBustle
9 months ago

Here's Your Horoscope For Sunday, June 29

Early birds could wake up to some unexpected emotions or changes of heart, but it's nothing you can't sort out over a quiet cup of coffee.
Coffee
fromwww.theguardian.com
10 months ago

Move on from a bad workplace | Brief letters

Shame I had to leave the job I loved, but better that than working for dickheads. If they're not interested in you, it is not worth trying to change them from within.
UK news
Fashion & style
fromVulture
10 months ago

The Daily Show Has Some Ideas for Atsuko Okatsuka's Next Haircut

Atsuko Okatsuka is hesitant to change her iconic bowl haircut, embodying the tension between personal identity and the inevitability of change.
fromLondon On The Inside
1 year ago

Watch an 8-Hour Performance on Top of a 2.5-Tonne Block of Suspended Ice at Greenwich + Docklands Fest

In 2024, GDIF will feature THAW, an aerial act on a melting ice block, along with various performances celebrating activism and change.
London food
#tarot
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

Is Your Therapist Helping You Enough?

Many people never make it beyond the honeymoon period with their therapist, gaining insight but leaving underlying psychological issues untouched.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
11 months ago

3 Small Changes That Can Enhance Your Relationship

Our brains are literally wired for change. Change is something to celebrate, and we are not hardwired by any particular age.
Relationships
Mental health
fromBustle
1 year ago

I'm Afraid My Saturn Return Will Be An Absolute Sh*tshow

Saturn returns can bring upheaval but also opportunities for growth and reinvention.
fromBig Think
1 year ago

What a historian in 2100 might say about Trump's America

An imagined historian in 2100 would analyze our current age through the lens of significant historical transitions, highlighting both the monumental and the minor details that shaped America.
US politics
[ Load more ]