The weekend my husband and I stopped drinking was a surprise to us both. I was taking my first solo mom weekend away from my 2-year-old son, staying at a beautiful seaside hotel. Initially, I packed wine for relaxation, expecting to enjoy my getaway. But through a journey of personal reflection and a significant book recommendation, I felt compelled to change my life and stop drinking completely.
Physically I felt like hot garbage, but the psychological side effects were no picnic either. The shame and guilt I felt for having a hangover overshadowed my trip, even when I wasn't responsible for my child. This pivotal realization brought to light the negative impact of my habits, pushing me toward a healthier lifestyle.
We were genuinely fearful we'd be the ultimate buzzkill to our friend group. I hesitated, thinking about my social life and how quitting would affect our relationships. Surprisingly, our friends were supportive and remained in our lives, showing that true connections endure beyond shared habits, opening up opportunities for new experiences.
After finishing 'This Naked Mind,' a book that shifted my outlook on alcohol, I called my husband to express my desire to quit drinking. To my surprise, he felt the same way, paving the way for us to venture into sobriety together as a couple.
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