Pseudo Versus Solid Self
Briefly

The solid self is composed of one's firmest convictions and integral beliefs, while the pseudo self absorbs others' opinions without conscious commitment, leading to loss of individuality.
In unhealthy relationships, two pseudo selves fuse, leading to a dilution of personal identity where one person loses themselves in the other, sacrificing self-awareness for comfort.
The solid self maintains individuality and is based on firm beliefs and values, unlike the pseudo self, which is shaped by emotional pressures and societal distortions of love.
Society's image of romantic love often depicts a pseudo-based relationship where individuals believe in concepts like 'the one', which can mask unhealthy dependencies.
Read at Psychology Today
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