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The Woman Who Didn't Want to Get Well

Health and happiness can be in conflict, as illustrated by Ellen's struggle with mania and her idealized persona, Esmeralda.

How to Free Yourself From a Toxic Narcissistic Upbringing

Healing from a narcissistic upbringing involves recognizing manipulation and embracing personal values for a healthier sense of self.

A Novelist's Unnerving Memoir of Disordered Eating

Moss's memoir combines fairy tale motifs with a raw exploration of her battle with anorexia, examining both self-blame and societal expectations.

Pom Pom Squad: Mirror Starts Moving Without Me

Mia Berrin, known as Pom Pom Squad, explores the complexities of success and self-identity in her follow-up album.

Dear Pepper: More Puppies, More Problems

Embracing motherhood often brings a sense of loss of self, causing struggles in personal fulfillment despite supportive environments.

The Woman Who Didn't Want to Get Well

Health and happiness can be in conflict, as illustrated by Ellen's struggle with mania and her idealized persona, Esmeralda.

How to Free Yourself From a Toxic Narcissistic Upbringing

Healing from a narcissistic upbringing involves recognizing manipulation and embracing personal values for a healthier sense of self.

A Novelist's Unnerving Memoir of Disordered Eating

Moss's memoir combines fairy tale motifs with a raw exploration of her battle with anorexia, examining both self-blame and societal expectations.

Pom Pom Squad: Mirror Starts Moving Without Me

Mia Berrin, known as Pom Pom Squad, explores the complexities of success and self-identity in her follow-up album.

Dear Pepper: More Puppies, More Problems

Embracing motherhood often brings a sense of loss of self, causing struggles in personal fulfillment despite supportive environments.
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#creativity

My wife glazes over when I talk about my writing. How can I come to terms with her indifference?

The author struggles with feeling undervalued as a writer in his marriage, leading to a sense of neglect regarding his true self.

Kelly Hoppen: I'd rather have more sex, because I've got money and fame'

Kelly Hoppen embodies resilience and creativity in her design career, recently launching a homeware range with M&S.

Love Letter to My Recent Poems | The Walrus

The speaker's internal struggle with creativity and self-identity is reflected in the personification of their thoughts and ideas.

My wife glazes over when I talk about my writing. How can I come to terms with her indifference?

The author struggles with feeling undervalued as a writer in his marriage, leading to a sense of neglect regarding his true self.

Kelly Hoppen: I'd rather have more sex, because I've got money and fame'

Kelly Hoppen embodies resilience and creativity in her design career, recently launching a homeware range with M&S.

Love Letter to My Recent Poems | The Walrus

The speaker's internal struggle with creativity and self-identity is reflected in the personification of their thoughts and ideas.
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Two books delivered beauty, inspiration and humor just when I needed them most

Billy Collins' latest poetry collection explores themes of aging and estrangement while maintaining his accessible and profound style.
#parenting

I don't want to forget who I was before becoming a dad. I make time for friends who don't have kids and allow myself to pursue hobbies.

Maintaining pre-kid identity amidst parenting responsibilities is essential for personal fulfillment.

When kids told his 6-year-old son that boys don't wear pink, this dad knew what he had to do

Doug Weaver supports his son's self-expression by embracing traditional gender norms challenges, exemplified through personal actions like wearing pink and painting his nails.

You Can Do Anything For Three Months" Is The Parenting Advice We Needed

Parenting struggles are temporary; reassurance that phases will pass can be empowering for new parents.

My husband and I take turns going on solo international trips without our kids. The arrangement works for us both.

Traveling solo has rejuvenated my identity and improved my parenting.

I don't want to forget who I was before becoming a dad. I make time for friends who don't have kids and allow myself to pursue hobbies.

Maintaining pre-kid identity amidst parenting responsibilities is essential for personal fulfillment.

When kids told his 6-year-old son that boys don't wear pink, this dad knew what he had to do

Doug Weaver supports his son's self-expression by embracing traditional gender norms challenges, exemplified through personal actions like wearing pink and painting his nails.

You Can Do Anything For Three Months" Is The Parenting Advice We Needed

Parenting struggles are temporary; reassurance that phases will pass can be empowering for new parents.

My husband and I take turns going on solo international trips without our kids. The arrangement works for us both.

Traveling solo has rejuvenated my identity and improved my parenting.
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How to use these mantras as reminders in different situations (Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj)

Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj provided practical guidance on using 'I am' mantras in various situations to cultivate awareness and separate identity from physical and emotional experiences.

I'm a trad wife' in a happy marriage. How can I get my friends to accept me for who I am? | Leading questions

The author navigates societal perceptions of a traditional marriage while grappling with acceptance from friends.
#psychology

Psychology Takes a New Look at the Self

The concept of self is complex and varies among psychology subfields, yet understanding it can help individuals reflect on their life trajectory.

The Power of Self-Contradiction

Self-contradiction is inherent to being human, but societal values often prioritize consistency and individualism over the complexity of our identities.

Pseudo Versus Solid Self

Understanding the difference between solid self and pseudo self is crucial for maintaining individual identity in relationships.

Reaction Formation in Couples

Reaction formation helps individuals deny unacceptable impulses by acting in opposition to them, temporarily alleviating internal conflict.

Psychology Takes a New Look at the Self

The concept of self is complex and varies among psychology subfields, yet understanding it can help individuals reflect on their life trajectory.

The Power of Self-Contradiction

Self-contradiction is inherent to being human, but societal values often prioritize consistency and individualism over the complexity of our identities.

Pseudo Versus Solid Self

Understanding the difference between solid self and pseudo self is crucial for maintaining individual identity in relationships.

Reaction Formation in Couples

Reaction formation helps individuals deny unacceptable impulses by acting in opposition to them, temporarily alleviating internal conflict.
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Is It Me, Or Is It Menopause?

Menopause can significantly impact decision-making and self-identity, leading to choices that may not reflect one's true self.

Opinion | I Write My Obituary, So I Can Live a Better Life

Writing your own obituary can help clarify life goals and maintain mindfulness about personal values.

TikTok star Lena Mantler hits out at speculation over her sexuality

Lena Mantler addresses sexuality rumors, emphasizing the importance of not judging individuals based on appearance or speculation.
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I spent decades straightening my 'Jewish hair' until I realised I was hiding my true self | Diana Spechler

The struggle with self-identity in relation to cultural heritage and appearance.

Ex-Wife by Ursula Parrott review Bridget Jones in the jazz age

The novel 'Ex-Wife' by Ursula Parrott delves into the complexities of love, marriage, and self-identity, offering a raw and controversial portrayal of a woman's journey through heartbreak and societal norms.

16 Toxic Parenting Behaviors Their Kids Won't Ever, Ever, Everrrrr Repeat

Traditional upbringing perpetuated toxic masculinity, affecting emotional expression and impacting self-identity.

'The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed' Announces An Exciting New Voice

The film 'The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed' by Joanna Arnow explores themes of relationships, self-identity, and societal expectations.

Singer Erika de Casier wants it all. Is that so wrong?

Erika de Casier has cool confidence in her music.
Her album titles carry deep meanings.

Show me how you burlesque! Coney Island performers offer immersive theater experience * Brooklyn Paper

The immersive theater act Ritual Cabaret Art Brothel explores self-identity and patriarchy dynamics through art and performance.
The show blurs the line between reality and performance by encouraging performers to interpret the dated play for a modern audience.

What's Your Type? | Merve Emre

The opening scene of Sally Rooney's new novel sets the tone for exploring the complexities of individual identities and societal classifications.

What's Your Type? | Merve Emre

The novel explores the complexities of defining individual personality through characters' interactions.
The characters struggle to categorize themselves and each other into specific types or classes.

'A Different Man' Review: Sebastian Stan's Dream Role Turns Into a Nightmare in Brilliant and Hilarious Thriller About Who People Are Under the Skin

A Different Man is a film that complicates its punchline by exploring themes of social conditioning and self-identity.
The film is described as a deliriously surreal psycho-thriller that defies easy categorization and moral instruction.

Renee Rapp 'constantly' deals with internalised homophobia even after coming out

Renee Rapp faces internalized homophobia post-SNL coming out.
#motherhood

My husband talked me into having kids - now I miss my old life

Societal pressure can lead to regret in motherhood despite love for the child.

I'm 45, & I Feel Like Crap Every Morning

Motherhood brings fatigue, doubts, and physical changes, causing anxiety and questioning self-identity.

My husband talked me into having kids - now I miss my old life

Societal pressure can lead to regret in motherhood despite love for the child.

I'm 45, & I Feel Like Crap Every Morning

Motherhood brings fatigue, doubts, and physical changes, causing anxiety and questioning self-identity.
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