My Wife Is Refusing to Honor Our Pregnancy Agreement. I'm Livid.
Briefly

The article addresses a parenting dilemma faced by a gay couple where one partner wants to change their previously agreed-upon roles regarding childbearing and work. The author emphasizes the importance of communication and counseling, suggesting that breaking commitments can lead to conflicts and emotional distress. The need for understanding each other’s feelings and working together to reach a consensus is highlighted, especially when mental health and career satisfaction are impacted. Ultimately, the couple must navigate these challenges for the sake of their family and individual well-being.
It's good that you're on a waiting list for counseling, because the two of you will likely need a mediator to come to an agreement.
Your wife made a commitment to you and she should honor it. Going back on her word sucks in general, but it's particularly unfair that she went on feeling this way for up to four years.
Read at Slate Magazine
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