My Valentines - San Francisco Bay Times
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Jewelle Gomez reflects on the significance of love among friends in her Valentine's Day narrative, irrevocably bonding her with two best friends over thirty-five years. She highlights how conventional celebrations often overlook non-romantic relationships, emphasizing the importance of expressing appreciation for platonic love. Gomez recounts her adventurous spirit during their initial meeting, illustrating how unexpected friendships can flourish despite different backgrounds and life paths. In her recollection, the bond with Sandra and Marianne transcends the traditional notions of love celebrated on Valentine’s Day, showcasing diverse representations of affection.
The Hallmark holiday is about love, not necessarily about coupledom, and we don't tell our pals how much we love them often enough.
Little in our initial meeting would indicate we'd be like sisters to each other for more than thirty-five years.
I was determined not to be left behind, so one Saturday night I dressed for success and put myself on a Bronx-bound subway train.
I wasn't planning mayhem; I just needed to see the competition.
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