Miss Manners: Doesn't my efficient way of eating make more sense than the polite way?
Briefly

Efficiency in eating isn't a virtue; politeness and enjoyment should take precedence. The idea that speed reflects good manners can be misleading and counterproductive.
Dealing with a friend who is negative requires sensitivity. While honesty is important, it's rarely kind to point out their flaws directly. Gradual distancing can be more effective.
Ghosting is often misunderstood; declining invitations isn't the same. A polite approach, like expressing a busy schedule, can ease social dynamics without confrontation.
Being honest about someone’s exhausting nature can lead to hurt feelings. Instead, maintain polite boundaries and emphasize shared activities rather than personal interactions.
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