I've Started Coming Out to All My Friends. My Husband Still Has No Clue.
Briefly

Thomas is still very sexually attracted to me. I feel guilty for not really wanting to have sex with him anymore, especially since he's very shy and unlikely to find other people to play with in person. Is it healthy to give him the low-information diet he wants?
In branching out, I've gotten to indulge in some kinks that I'm not able to explore with my husband. Thomas gets concerned about any marks on me from play, but I don't feel like I owe it to him to prioritize his comfort over my enjoyment.
Read at Slate Magazine
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