"You have to start by explaining why you kept this hobby a secret. I mean, really think about it, maybe even write down some notes for yourself..."
"Whatever you express needs to be more compelling than her assumption, which is 'Because it's an expression of a secret life.' And it sounds like you can come up with a meaningful narrative..."
"Perhaps these include things like your keen awareness of society's homophobia, a history of being made fun or criticized for interests..."
"And if you simply were being a bit lazy by avoiding a conversation that you knew would take a lot out of you, own that, too!"
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