The letter writer expresses frustration over constant comments regarding her weight from family members, highlighting feelings of objectification and embarrassment. Despite being slender, her relatives often make negative remarks about her size, while she notes their struggles with weight. She desires acceptance as a person and wishes for her family to view her beyond her appearance. The advice suggests addressing these comments directly, acknowledging shared family experiences in weight struggles, and asserting her feelings in order to foster respect and understanding.
For years I have watched you struggle unsuccessfully with your weight. Frankly, it has made me feel guilty for being thin.
I find it embarrassing for all of us. I want those comments to stop.
I am more than a body. I'm a kind and caring human being who just wants to be accepted and respected.
It's possible that I was born with a higher metabolism than the rest of you, which is not my fault.
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