Asking Eric: I want to tell her she'll be getting no more gifts from me
Briefly

The article addresses gift-giving dynamics, particularly when the recipient does not use the gift as intended. It emphasizes that the giver cannot control how gifts are used and suggests that expressing feelings and understanding the recipient's context can enhance future gift exchanges. In another case regarding a severely ill brother, it raises the ethical dilemma of using inheritance for immediate family versus saving for children with special needs. The overall theme revolves around compassion, understanding, and proper communication in relationships.
When giving gifts, we don't get to dictate how they're used. The hope of the gift-giver is that they haven't somehow misunderstood and given a gift that the recipient doesn't have use for.
Instead, candidly express that you had hoped the TV would make her happier. You understand her situation and suggest that in the future, cash or gift cards may be more appropriate.
Read at www.mercurynews.com
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