She may think you're a regular who likes to be known in this way. Informing her that that's not the case is helping her do her job better.
You won’t be causing her suffering by saying something like, 'I’ve already decided on my meal. Let’s skip the guessing today.'
This also clears the path for the two of you to talk about something else, if you want. Ideally, it’s a conversation that you’ll both enjoy.
In social situations, you may not have the kind of temperament that easily or comfortably course-corrects, but that’s just fine.
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