When he said that one of the girls in my friend group has 'perfectly shaped boobs', it struck deep because he knew my biggest insecurity.
We had a beautiful relationship for the most part, but he would never take me out on dates; it felt like I was the one always initiating plans.
Despite checking all my boxes—kindness, curiosity, and a shared future—his lack of effort left me feeling unimportant in a relationship where I prioritized him.
His effortless ability to make plans for himself while I struggled to just get him to join me began to wear on me emotionally.
#relationship-dynamics #emotional-wellbeing #communication-issues #insecurity #effort-in-relationships
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