Grindr is for the times you're looking for something "right now," like a sex-charged text exchange or a completely transactional blow job; Scruff is when you're unwaveringly horny - but down to string sentences together over a cocktail or two before donning a harness; Hinge and Chappy sit somewhere on the same plane of "I'm looking for a boyfriend, so I can tell my New York-raised family over Thanksgiving dinner I'm casually seeing someone," but still down for NSA threesome; OkCupid is, essentially, completing a 23andMe test, telling one another where you'd like to someday buy property, and share future plans on how to invest your finances in a shared Roth IRA - i.e. you get on to find a husband.) 1