The article discusses the painful realization of becoming a 'fringe friend', exemplified by a birthday surprise gone wrong. The experience highlights changing friendship dynamics, particularly as distance grows and communication wanes. Despite the emotional toll, experts suggest that being a fringe friend can be common, as many find they are not as close to their friends as desired. Studies indicate that people value the number of friends they have yet struggle with deeper connections, provoking feelings of inadequacy. Experts emphasize the importance of validating these feelings and recognizing potential positives in casual friendships.
"After a decade of knowing her, I had become her fringe friend – a non-essential pal, the person who's always welcome but never invited."
"They crave quality over quantity. More than 40% felt they weren't as close to their friends as they'd like."
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