Shari Leid, a friendship expert, reflects on her past use of the word 'whatever' and its negative implications in communication. She argues that this casual dismissal can be incredibly harmful, signaling disrespect and cutting off further dialogue. Leid emphasizes that using 'whatever' escalates tension and can lead to emotional reactions, as it suggests a lack of care for the other person's feelings. She advocates for more respectful and constructive communication to foster healthier relationships, particularly in moments of disagreement.
"Whatever is a fighting word, a dismissive remark that risks breaking relationships. It's immature and demeaning, escalating tension in conversations."
"Brushing off a conversation with 'whatever' signals indifference or a lack of respect, and doesn't allow for continued discourse."
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