"The One," or the Right One for Right Now?
Briefly

The article posits that love should not be about finding a singular, perfect partner but rather seeking the right person for our current life situation. Research in psychology and neuroscience indicates that our needs and preferences in partners evolve due to neuroplasticity and life experiences. Changes in our bodies, emotions, and expectations all influence how we relate to others. A study on single women's shifting priorities over time underscores the importance of adaptability in relationships, suggesting that connection and compatibility may vary throughout different stages of life.
What if love isn't about finding the one, but about finding the right one for who we are right now?
Recognizing these shifts has been important in developmental psychology, which explores different life stages, each with its own challenges and needs.
A large international study of single women found that preferences for certain traits, such as confidence and parenting intentions, change with age.
Read at Psychology Today
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