Dr. Emily Nagoski's Kinsey Institute's 'Dual Control Model' explains the gas (excitation) and brake (inhibition) pedals in sexual response, helping understand factors affecting arousal and libido in relationships.
He will usually lean up against me while we are on the couch, rub my leg, and then ask if we can have 'snuggle time' later and smile. I don't know why, but it's a complete turn-off for me when he says it.
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