The author reflects on the sudden estrangement from a close friend following a joyful wedding. After a brief dinner, the friend became distant, leading to confusion and sadness. Despite attempts to reach out through social media and special occasions, there has been no response. The advice suggests directly addressing the feelings of loss and asking for clarification, emphasizing the importance of understanding the friend's perspective. It highlights the need for humility and patience when seeking resolution in strained relationships.
We have to be more direct: I miss you! Do we have an issue to discuss? I certainly don't blame you for the rift with your friend.
It would be infinitely better if they were [forthcoming about their feelings], but conflict is hard for some people.
Focus less on expressing your feelings and more on listening to her perspective. It may make it easier for her to speak honestly.
The best we can do in situations like these is to approach our friends with humility and patience as we ask for clarity.
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