"My husband and I are in an open relationship (both male, married for eight years) and on a recent holiday we started to explore group sex. We had a wonderful threesome where we both felt great afterwards and had a mutual attraction to the other man which is rare for us. However, our latest endeavour wasn't as successful. We invited a couple and a single man back to our hotel room. Everything was great during the fivesome, and afterwards the couple left. We invited the other man to stay the night (mostly led by me)."
"In the morning, things between me and this man started to heat up. He went to the bathroom and I asked my husband if he wanted to partake, to which he said no and that he'd rather sleep. Regardless, I carried on with the man for a short period until we climaxed. After he left, my husband was extremely mad at me. It wasn't a boundary we had discussed, and I've apologised. However, part of me feels like it isn't as bad as he's making me feel."
A married male couple in an open relationship experimented with group sex and experienced both a satisfying threesome and a later fivesome that produced conflict. After inviting an additional man to stay, one partner resumed sexual activity the next morning despite the other partner declining to join. The declining partner reacted with anger, silence, distance, and demands for contrition. One partner reports apologising while also suspecting the other of concealing communications with other men. The core problems are mismatched expectations, unclear boundaries, inconsistent honesty, and damaged trust that require detailed negotiation, consistent transparency, and possibly couples therapy to repair.
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