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fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

I Have a Rule for How Quickly I Want to Have Sex With Other Men. I Know It's Not the Norm.

Being a 26-year-old virgin who prefers to wait for a committed relationship is acceptable; seek partners who respect your timeline and boundaries.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

This is how we do it: I do get jealous and question whether I'm cut out for non-monogamy'

I asked him what his hobbies are, and he said dressing up as a woman and masturbating furiously. I got the impression he was just looking for sex, but so was I. If either of us had thought the other was looking for something serious, we'd have run a mile. That Ollie is more experienced in ethical non-monogamy (ENM) made me feel insecure at first.
Relationships
Relationships
fromVulture
3 weeks ago

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Recap: I'm Not Obviously Stoked

Mormon relationship norms contain inconsistent, confusing rules about sex, breaks, separation, and social interactions, creating frustration and unclear boundaries for couples.
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

My Wife Always Insists We Don't Have Sex While Visiting My In-Laws. But This Year, She's Taking Her Rule to an Extreme.

She insists that we never have sex while we are guests in their home or they are guests in ours. As ridiculous as I think that is, I am willing to go along with it. However, my wife has now decided it even extends to self-pleasure. She has forbidden me from taking a Fleshlight and has gone so far as to say I'm not even allowed to jerk off! She's completely out of line here, right?
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

My Boyfriend Just Asked Me to Do Something to Him in Bed. But If I Follow Through, I'll Think Less of Him.

You wrote that you know you would think less of him. If you're certain, or even fairly certain, that you will lose a significant amount of attraction or respect for your partner if you proceed with a particular sex act, the situation is more high-risk for the relationship than a turn-off or a lack of interest would be. "Mean" here would look like using language of shame and judgment when talking to him about it: "Ew, gross, I'll never see you as a man again."
Relationships
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

There's One Thing I'll Never Do in Bed. Men and Women React Very Differently to that Declaration.

Using dental dams can block taste and contact with vaginal secretions, enabling oral sex without exposure to smell or taste.
#consent
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Relationships

My Husband Is Obsessed With a New Move in Bed. All It Makes Me Think About Is Where His ... Package Has Been.

fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Relationships

My Husband Is Obsessed With a New Move in Bed. All It Makes Me Think About Is Where His ... Package Has Been.

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Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Never Want to Repeat What My Wife and I Did in the Bedroom. My Friends Swear I'm Out of My Mind.

A partner cheated; consenting afterward didn't make it acceptable, and insisting on fidelity while refusing planned threesomes is a reasonable boundary to protect the relationship.
Television
fromBustle
2 months ago

Exclusive: 'Love Is Blind' Star Kalybriah Responds To Edmond's "Nice Guy" Moment

Kalybriah Haskin and Edmond Harvey connected deeply but clashed over sexual boundaries and emotional commitment, causing tension before their engagement.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

I had sex with another man while my husband slept. Is he right to be furious?

Open relationships require explicit boundaries, honest communication, and mutual respect; unclear expectations during group sex can cause hurt, silence, and eroded trust.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Wife Recently Started Making More Money. It Was Awesome-Until I Found Out How.

A wife secretly earning money on OnlyFans breached trust by lying, prompting marital conflict over honesty, monogamy, and sexual boundaries.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Girlfriend Finally Moved In. But What She Does in Her Sleep Might Be the Ultimate Dealbreaker.

Cohabitation requires mutual compromise, respectful communication, and practical strategies to manage sexual bodily-fluid issues and sleep disruptions.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

My partner won't pleasure me and it is making me paranoid

Establish clear sexual boundaries and evaluate whether emotional affection and other forms of intimacy sufficiently compensate for a partner’s refusal to reciprocate oral sex.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 months ago

My Wife Has Set a New Rule About the Nights We Can Have Sex. This Is Tyranny!

A partner may limit sexual activity to specific nights due to fatigue; address feelings, communicate needs, and negotiate compromises or alternatives respectfully.
fromSlate Magazine
3 months ago

My Wife Thinks I'm Not a "Real Man" for What I Refuse to Do in Bed. That's Not Fair!

My wife and I have been at odds over something since we've been together. She gets especially horny during her period and wants sex. The idea of doing it while she has that going on sickens me. With the exceptions of when she was pregnant, every month it's been the same thing when that week rolls around: the demands, my refusals, and the accusations that I'm "not a real man." How can I get through to her that this is off the table for me once and for all? -Counting the Days Until Menopause
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