The article features a letter from a woman who feels consistently ignored by her high school classmates during reunions, with her husband dismissing her feelings as paranoia. Despite attending all reunions together, she receives no acknowledgment or conversation from peers, leading her to consider skipping future events. Dear Abby responds firmly, critiquing the classmates for their lack of decency and suggesting that the woman prioritize her own happiness over attending negative experiences. The underlying theme addresses social anxiety, unaddressed past trauma, and the importance of self-worth in relationships.
My opinion is that your former classmates lack class and compassion, and your husband is no better than they are to have ignored their rudeness.
You should skip the reunion and do something that you would enjoy!
It’s been 50 years, and the insensitivity of your classmates shows a lack of personal growth.
Your feelings about being ignored are completely valid, and it’s troubling that your husband dismisses them.
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