A family with a preschool-aged child feels disconnected from relatives who drop off gifts without spending time together. The parents wish for their son to bond with his aunt and uncle, instead of just receiving material items. The relatives' good intentions are acknowledged, possibly stemming from a desire not to intrude. The parents seek a way to communicate their disappointment without appearing ungrateful, emphasizing the importance of shared time over gifts. They are encouraged to invite the relatives for a more personal visit in the future, emphasizing communication and connection.
It's hard to know how to tell them that their kind gesture fell very short with us. Had they given us 15 minutes advance notice, we could have seen them.
Every response I imagine sounds ungrateful for their gifts. Is it too much to ask them to spend a little time with their nephew?
Thinking generously about their actions, maybe they don't want to bother you or presume that parents of young kids don't have time to entertain.
Try saying something like, 'We really hate to miss you. Next time you're coming by, just give us a call when you're on your way.'
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