We had a conversation about what we were both already into/if there was anything either of us had ever wanted to try. We made a kinky bucket list - we add to it regularly, and we tick things off it regularly. We discussed if we liked certain things we've tried or not, and now some of the things from the list are in our regular rotation!
Reaching a level of trust where both people are comfortable speaking up about the things they'd like to try is such a game-changer. For me, the biggest turn-on is feeling that I'm really pleasing my partner.
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