The article discusses the complex relationship posttraumatic parents have with the term 'later.' For those carrying childhood scars, 'later' can evoke feelings of neglect and rejection. However, when used mindfully, the word can foster emotional regulation, patience, and trust in children. Parents are reminded of the importance of honoring commitments which ensures that 'later' is not perceived as a broken promise. The author emphasizes that when delivered sincerely, this word can be a powerful tool in shaping resilient children and breaking generational cycles of emotional dysregulation.
Posttraumatic parents often struggle with the word 'later' due to childhood wounds, but when used correctly, it can teach children patience and emotional regulation.
Saying 'later' can trigger guilt in posttraumatic parents, as it may feel like a rejection; however, it builds trust when delivered with sincerity.
Words have incredible power—'later' can soothe and guide children, transforming parenting and building resilience as long as parents commit to keeping their promises.
The promise to be different from one's own parents may lead to overcorrection; using 'later' can help break this cycle and reinforce emotional strength.
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