She was horrified to learn that her mother-in-law bathed with her 3-year-old. Her husband thinks her reaction is wrong.
Briefly

In an archived letter to Slate's Care and Feeding, a mother expresses discomfort over her daughter bathing with her grandmother. While she believes in body positivity and uses proper anatomical terms, she feels unsettled by the intimate nature of the bath time. Her husband sees it as a healthy experience showcasing body diversity, particularly relevant due to his mother's past mastectomy. The parents grapple with differing values and past comments from the in-laws that complicate the situation, highlighting the necessity of open conversations around boundaries and comfort regarding family interactions.
When parents engage in conversations about body positivity and boundaries, it is crucial to ensure that all family members respect those boundaries. The discomfort in such situations often stems from differing values.
While experiences like bathing together can promote body positivity, it's vital to discuss and respect the limits set by immediate family to avoid invading personal boundaries.
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