The article explores a mother's reflections on her early decision to leave her career and the sacrifices made for motherhood. As her children become teenagers, she recognizes the significant personal cost of giving up her identity as a professional and the struggle to reconnect with herself. She expresses regret for not pursuing part-time work and for prioritizing her children's social lives over her own friendships, leading to feelings of isolation and longing for the connections she sacrificed.
A core part of my identity as a lawyer was even harder to give up than the salary.
Even though I had doubts, I left a job I loved to be a stay-at-home mom, feeling pressure from friends and family.
I regret not focusing on myself more and losing my identity to motherhood.
Now that my kids are older, I feel this loss acutely, especially as many colleagues are at the pinnacle of their careers.
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