I don't care what experts say about gender identity - I won't stop telling my kids 'good girl' and 'good boy'

I'm officially done. No disrespect to the researchers and experts, but that's enough. Stop it now. Thanks.

Don't say 'good girl' or 'good boy', as it may raise issues around gender identity and self-esteem.

Constant praise may mean children unconsciously feel they are doing things for adult approval, rather than for themselves.

Process praise is apparently what we're aiming for here, people. It's informational, giving children feedback on their efforts and strategies in achieving an outcome.

Read at New York Post